Dumas, Adrienne Dale

[left:9858457eb9]http://www.cherubs-cdh.org/Album/new/dumas-adrienne.jpg[/left:9858457eb9]In April of 1996, my husband, Gary, and I went to my obstetrician's office for a routine ultrasound. We were so excited, I was 19 weeks along and had just begun to feel Adrienne's life in my belly. I was not sure that the ultrasound was necessary because my husband and I were both young and healthy with no reason to believe that there would be any problems. During the ultrasound we told the sonographer that we did not want to know the sex of our baby. We wanted to be surprised when the baby was born. The sonographer began to seem distracted during the ultrasound and then abruptly dropped the doppler and excused herself from the room. Gary and I thought briefly that something might be wrong with the baby but agreed that it was more likely that the sonographer had something going on in her personal life that was causing her to act so strange. When the sonographer returned about 10 minutes later with my obstetrician in tow, they both had tears in their eyes and struggled to tell us that our baby had a very severe case of a rare birth defect called diaphragmatic hernia, (left-sided). My first question was "Is our baby going to die," the answer was a silent spillage of tears down their faces. That began one of the most painful and surreal weeks of my life (along with the weeks following her birth). We were sent to see a neonatal specialist who performed an amniocentesis, (which was normal), and advised Gary and I to terminate the pregnancy in the form of an induction and live birth. The doctor told us to prepare to offer our child a peaceful death in our arms rather than to be born full-term and begin a struggle for life that she could not win. She told us there was a good chance Adrienne would be stillborn if I did carry her to full-term. If she did win the battle, she would live her life as a vegetable. As we drove home after that day of hell, we realized that our lives would never be the same; the loss of a child seemed unbearable. I wasn't sure how I would survive the death of our child and her funeral. It seemed so unfair to terminate a life without ever giving her a chance, but how could I condemn her to a life as a vegetable for my own selfish reasons? How could a doctor know that she would not live before she was even born? As we prepared for the termination and funeral, we found out the sex of the baby and named her Adrienne, it seemed to fit her perfectly even though we had never met her. As we walked the site next to my grandfather's grave where Adrienne was to be buried, the child living so strong in my belly began to flip and kick using all her might. It was a very intense message from Adrienne that terminating was not the right thing to do. The next day we met Dennis Lund, MD at the Children's Hospital in Boston who told us that the information we had been given was very outdated and untrue. There was so much hope for CDH babies, no matter how severe their case (Dr. Lund agreed, after seeing the ultrasound pictures of Adrienne, that she had one of the most severe cases he had seen). He gave his apologies for what we had been through from the time of the first ultrasound to the time we saw him (which was only a week, but it seemed like an eternity). He told me to keep myself as healthy as I could in order to deliver Adrienne in the best shape possible. He explained that we would need to be prepared to have Adrienne taken from us at birth and she would need ECMO immediately, then surgery and a long hospital stay involving many high-tech procedures and machines to save her life. We were prepared and so ready...anything to save our baby and offer her the happy life we had dreamed of for her. We went to Boston for Level 2 ultrasounds every two weeks for the duration of the pregnancy and were always encouraged to hear that her heart continued to look good. During those ultrasounds we saw her sucking her thumb, doing little dances and we even saw her crying once. She had such a personality, even then.

On Saturday night, during a hurricane, at 1:36 a.m. on August 31, 1996 Adrienne was born after 30 hours of labor and a consequent emergency C-section at Brigham and Women's Hospital in Boston. As Dr. Lund had warned us, she was taken from my body and put on a respirator within seconds and then rushed away. I got a chance to look at her as they wheeled her past me and I said "Be strong, Baby Adrienne." She looked at me with big, focused eyes and I knew that I had a very strong, willful baby. The name Adrienne was perfect for her. We were told to get some rest and we would be called in a few hours. In a few hours, we received our first communication from Dr. Jay Wilson, CDH expert at BCH. He had been with Adrienne for hours at that point and had put her on VA ECMO, and within a couple of hours, VV ECMO. He was monitoring her closely, he told us, and she was in good hands. It didn't take us long to realize what an extraordinary man Jay Wilson was. He was compassionate and caring and wasn't afraid to shed some tears with us as he explained how rocky the roads were and that he would do everything he could do to save our very ill daughter.

After 10 days on ECMO it came to an abrupt end following 3 days of cycling with very little lung function. The circuit had a clot in it and it needed to be either replaced or discontinued. Since this was happening when we were en route to the hospital and were unreachable, Dr. Wilson made the decision to let her try to "fly." When my mother and I arrived at the hospital, we received the information from the secretary at the front desk that Adrienne was off ECMO. We weren't sure what that meant. Within a few minutes of our arrival, Dr. Wilson emerged from Adrienne's cubicle and told us he was nervous, but changing the circuit and putting her back on ECMO would not be beneficial to her since she was nearing the end of the safety zone on ECMO. Much to everyone's surprise, she made it on a hi-fi oscillating ventilator!! After a week of hi-fi she began a spell with pneumothoraxes that nearly claimed her life, one right after the other for 3 days. Dr. Wilson told us to be prepared that this could be the end, but he would continue to pull from what he called his "bag of tricks." Some of the things he tried on Adrienne in the next couple of weeks were not approved by the government and considered very experimental, but Dr. Wilson told us that they were our only hope and we trusted him fully. He is the most intelligent, compassionate doctor we have ever known and he gave her his life for a good four weeks until she began to stabilize. His wife must be equally as compassionate and caring. At two months old, after a week of failed attempts to get off the conventional ventilator, she made it!! It was during the big flood in New England of October 1996 and I cried as I watched the taxis floating down the streets in Boston on the news as I sat in my home in Kennebunk, Maine. After all that time, I couldn't get to her on the day she was extubated. The nurses kept in close contact with me that day and told me how well she was doing on oxygen. During the two months Adrienne spent at the Children's Hospital, my mother and I commuted daily to Boston during the week and on the weekends my husband and I made the commute together.

On November 3, Dr. Wilson told me that Adrienne was stable enough to be transferred to his associates in Portland, Maine at Maine Medical Center so that she could be closer to home. She still had some severe fluid issues and required daily Lasix, she was having a difficult time weaning from Morphine and was having withdrawals no matter how slow the wean went. She had survived some blood infections secondary to the central line but was doing pretty well. Dr. Wilson told us that the next issue before Adrienne could go home was feeding. After 2 months of pumping and throwing away the majority of my breast milk, I wanted to nurse her. I wanted to offer her something normal and motherly. When we got to Portland on November 4, I did not bond as well with her doctor there as I had with Dr. Wilson - who could ever live up to Dr. Wilson? We argued about what to feed Adrienne and how to feed her. I wanted her to have breast milk, he thought formula would be better. I wanted to try to nurse her, he thought that tube feedings were much safer and could monitor her fluid intake better. Eventually I nursed her, but only once. She latched on immediately and looked so peaceful but it came up as fast as it went down, only much more painfully. Her severe case of reflux had been showing its ugly face for a few weeks at that point. She continued to have breast milk through her various types of feeding tubes until she was nine months old, at which point, I had had it with pumping. As the two months crept past that she spent at Maine Medical Center, her doctor (Dr. Browne) and I came to respect each other even though we didn't always agree. After placement of a jejunostomy tube during Thanksgiving week of 1996 and the rehabilitation from that surgery, Adrienne came home on December 20, 1996. What a Christmas we had... The j-tube was placed in order to keep Adrienne nourished through the winter, Dr. Browne did not think she was strong enough to have the nissen fundoplication to correct her reflux at that point and thought we should wait until spring. Dr. Browne did not want us to feed Adrienne orally through the winter, for fear of aspiration. Through the winter, our home was kept as sterile as possible and people were screened carefully at the front door for any colds. Adrienne remained oxygen dependent around the clock until after her fundoplication in April 1997, at which point she only needed oxygen to sleep. The fundoplication was done at the same time the g-tube was placed. A minor surgery was performed shortly after that to remove the j-tube and the central line, a surgery which I was able to participate in.

Adrienne stopped breathing on the way home from my parent's house one night because her cannulas had disconnected from the oxygen tank. I will never forget her labored, slow breaths as I looked at her purple body and begged her to breathe while waiting for the ambulance to arrive. My husband was not with us during this episode but rounded the dark corner on his way home to find our front lawn covered with ambulances and flashing emergency lights. The winter she came home was racked by scary blood infections (from the central line), constant reflux of the bile from Adrienne's empty stomach (the food was going directly into the intestines via the j-tube), and complete oxygen dependence. It was not a restful winter, to say the least. Since then, Adrienne has survived a significant case of external hydrocephalus which we thought was going to need to be shunted, dumping syndrome/hypoglycemia, a painful retching disorder with frequent bouts each day, the inability to eat by mouth due to dysphasia and lack of skills, recurrent ulcers from the g-tube, monthly IV placement and respigam treatments, SVC syndrome with subsequent heart surgery and hardware placement and a small hole in her heart (which healed itself when she was 3). Every couple of years until she is full grown the hardware used to keep her SVC vein open will need to be enlarged. When she is full grown she will need a full reconstructive surgery on her SVC vein. She graduated from oxygen at 26 months old!!

Over the years we had in-home PT, OT and speech several times a week in order to help Adrienne catch up developmentally. When Adrienne was 3, we were fortunate enough to find a warm and loving private duty nurse in our hometown to be a part of our lives, after searching unsuccessfully for 18 months to find a nurse we felt comfortable with. Linda is a wonderful mother to her own three children and she is a very caring and compassionate nurse. Until we found Linda, Gary, my Mom and I were the only ones who took care of Adrienne. Having Linda in our lives has allowed me to take on some responsibilities outside of our home knowing that Adrienne is in good hands, and it has provided Adrienne with a new extended family at Linda’s house. Linda has accompanied Adrienne to preschool for 2 years and will continue going to school with Adrienne to provide medical support when Adrienne enters public kindergarten in the fall of 2001. We LOVE Linda!

Through it all, Adrienne has been lucky enough to grow into a normal child with a few lasting medical issues. Most people are amazed to find out that she has medical problems and was unable to eat by mouth until she was 3 ½ years old. We feel so lucky to have found Dr. Wilson. At a CDH clinic visit in 1999, Adrienne put her "G-G" (that's what she named her blankey) in Dr. Wilson's lap and laid her head on her G-G. It was touching to watch as he stroked her curly hair and smiled at her. It was a perfect picture of the compassionate and caring doctor he is and the trust Adrienne has in him. I have always felt that he loves her and cares about her life very much.

It took me 2 years to gain the strength to write Adrienne's story and to read the stories of other cherubs. I am glad that I finally did it, but it wasn't easy to write this story, nor was it easy to read my first newsletter "The Silver Lining." My heart bleeds for the parents who have lost their precious CDH babies and also for those parents who terminated their pregnancies with CDH babies due to their doctors' ignorance (we were so close). I share the joy of those parents whose CDH babies are growing into special, loving children who will always stand apart from the others. Adrienne loves to sing and dance and can often be found performing in inappropriate places including the grocery store - she always draws a crowd. She joined a ballet class last fall which she loves. I am looking forward to the dance recital in June of 99. Each of Adrienne’s milestones still brings tears to my eyes and an inexplicable happiness to my heart. I am sure, at this point, that I will always feel this way about Adrienne's successes in life. My heart has never felt such joy and pain until Adrienne and I don't think it ever will again. She is my hero and the love of my life.



Update 2001:



Well, Adrienne’s first dance recital was wonderful! She was so happy on the stage, and really knows how to work the crowd. This year marks her third year of dance, she is taking clogging this year and loves it.

We spent the better part of the month of April 2000 at Kluge Children’s Rehab Center at UVA at a feeding program in order to get Adrienne eating by mouth. The months since the feeding clinic haven’t been easy. Adrienne has struggled with eating, but has advanced from pureed foods to a normal, textured diet in less than 1 year. We went back to Kluge again in October 2000 in order to help Adrienne progress to textured foods, and after that, she advanced quickly with chewing.

Adrienne’s hypoglycemia is still a big issue for us at 4 ½ years old. Adrienne gets cornstarch in a little bit of milk (via g-tube) after each time she eats to regulate her blood sugar. She is currently going through a medical work-up searching for a reason for the hypoglycemia since all of the dumping syndrome symptoms are gone, but the hypoglycemia is still present.



Written by Adrienne's mom, Jenn Dumas (Maine)
1997, Updated 1999 and 2001