Kerri

It hurts me to see you so torn. All these ladies have given you such great advice. I agree on trying to find a counselor. If you go to church, they sometimes have people who can help you through tough times or you could even meet with the pastor if you feel comfortable.

I got married when I was 22. It is a lot of work. Right now I have to remind myself to ask about how he is feeling. Sometimes men won't tell you but other times they wish you would ask.

It could be that losing the two of you is his biggest fear and may not be sure how to show you how much he really cares. I hope that you are able to connect with a counselor.

Don't be afraid to chat with us here! We are all here with/for you.