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Isabelle and Family

November 26, 2014

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I have been a member on here for about 4 years now and honestly I just recently gained regular access to a computer. You will have to bare with me as I am still trying to navigate this site. It only took me 20 minutes to figure out how to post to my blog

It is coming up on 7 years since we got to meet and had to say good bye to Isabelle. She is still on our minds daily. Every year we take her a gift and the family sits in the car eating Chipotle. I am sure this sounds pretty odd but there is a story behind it. At 20 weeks we found out that Isabelle had CDH. From then on we had on average 2 appointments a week. After the appointments my husband and I would always stop by Chipotle for lunch. Boy oh boy would that girl kick, flip and flop when I ate it. So, we assumed she was loving it and have started the tradition of eating Chipotle in her memory. Her birthday is November 29 so as usual we will be found up at her grave this Saturday eating Chipotle in the freezing cold, lol.

Over the past years both my husband and I have tried being active in Cherubs. Every year we send the request to the mayor of Columbus and the Governor of Ohio for the National Day of Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia Awareness. We, just a couple years ago, decided to try and hold a fundraiser. We decided to do a car show in hope of raising awareness and maybe a little money. We really came out in the hole but did donate two hundred dollars and some change. I hope Cherubs received the money order but I am not sure since I never heard anything. We didn't do the fundraiser last year but we do hope to do the car show again this Spring/Summer 2015. Hopefully this one will be a bit more successful

I feel a little isolated from most Cherubs parents and families. Maybe it is because I am not able to volunteer like I would like to or maybe it's because my Cherub is not here. In any case I am hoping that if I figure out this website maybe I can become a bigger part of Cherubs. I have often thought of volunteering at Children's Hospital here in Columbus but then wonder what good would I be to these parents? I mean Isabelle was only around for 2 1/2 hours, I didn't experience most of what they are. One day I will find my purpose in this group but until then I will continue to make others aware of what CDH is.
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  1. MonicaForquer's Avatar
    Hi Danielle!

    Beautiful blog post! I love your tradition of eating Chipotle at your daughter's gravesite! I loved running and biking with my son, Sammy, so I an doing a fundraiser that involves my completing 1000 miles for him. It's great to have those memories to fall back on of our babies in the womb!

    My parents live in Columbus, OH! I bet my mom would be happy to help you with a fundraiser. She's recovering from a pretty nasty broken leg right now so she's not very mobile, but she's very computer savvy and she's full of good ideas! She's here for the weekend so I'll ask!

    I saw your post on Facebook. Isabelle was such a beautiful baby. I hope you no longer feel isolated from us! There are plenty of moms out there just like you who have only gotten a few hours or days with their babies. But to all of us who were in that situation, those brief moments were some of the most important memories of our lives! As far as thinking of volunteering with Children's, I've actually wanted to give back to our Children's hospital too. I actually just applied at Children's (in DC) to work in their Fetal Medicine Institute. I think that pregnancies like ours brings a lot of value to the Fetal Medicine department. It's hard for most women to empathize with how if feels to be pregnant with a baby that may not make it. I've also tried to brainstorm how I could be helpful in the NICU too. It hasn't come to me yet, but if I think of something I'll share my ideas!

    Thank you for sharing your birthday tradition with us! I'll be thinking of you on the 29th!