I've read and re-read this topic and I simply don't understand your post, Tania. I'm not sure why you're so upset. There is nothing at all wrong with Dawn asking members if their items are accounted for. Members have put time, money, energy, and their hearts into donating to CHERUBS and the gift bags. Things could have very easily gotten lost in the shuffle/transition and we want to make sure that everything is accounted for.