(((((((((((((((((((((( Kerri )))))))))))))))))))) I agree with everything Danielle said, she gave you some great advice. I was in your shoes once... my heart breaks for you reading this. I don't know if it's spring fever or what, but it seems a lot of our young couples here are going through a lot of marriage issues and hubby's who seem totally disconnected. What can we do to help you? Do you think it would help him to talk to another dad? Definitely please do start counseling, for you and Kayla. If you need to talk, we're here, all of us. Vent, cry, talk, whatever you need to do and we're here with shoulders and ears for you. You're part of our CHERUBS family... you're not alone in this!